KEYAKINAN CINTA MENGATASI RINTANGAN DAN IDEAL: KAITAN DENGAN CINTA DAN HARAPAN PADA HUBUNGAN ROMANTIS DI DEWASA AWAL

Elia Angela, Olivia Hadiwirawan

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Kepuasan hubungan individu ditentukan oleh banyak faktor, salah satunya yaitu keyakinan romantis. Keyakinan romantis merupakan serangkaian keyakinan yang terdiri atas ekspektasi dan harapan individu terhadap hubungan romantis itu sendiri. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk melihat bagaimana hubungan antara keyakinan romantis dengan kepuasan hubungan pada sampel dewasa awal yang sedang berpacaran. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kuantitatif korelasional. Partisipan dalam penelitian ini berjumlah 152 mahasiswa dengan rentang usia antara 18-25 tahun dan sedang menjalani hubungan romantis minimal selama enam bulan. Pengambilan data dalam penelitian ini menggunakan dua alat ukur yaitu Romantic Beliefs Scale dan Relationship Assessment Scale. Secara garis besar, hasil penelitian ini menemukan bahwa terdapat korelasi positif antara keyakinan romantis terhadap kepuasan hubungan romantis pada dewasa awal yang sedang berpacaran. Hasil penelitian ini juga menemukan bahwa dimensi keyakinan cinta mengatasi rintangan, dan ideal berkorelasi positif terhadap dimensi cinta dan harapan pada kepuasan hubungan romantis. Implikasi dan saran untuk penelitian selanjutnya dibahas lebih lanjut.

 


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keyakinan romantis; kepuasan hubungan; dewasa awal; berpacaran awal

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